You’ve Gotta be Kidding!
I came across some very interesting stats regarding Christians that were highlighted in the book, “The Way Back: How Christians Blew Our Credibility and How We Get It Back” by Phil Cooke and Jonathan Bock.
The premise of the book stems from the scripture in Matthew 7:15-20. Verse 20 sums it up where it states, “Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.”
Unfortunately, according to the stats uncovered by Cooke and Bock, we as Christians have a real problem following through with what we say we believe. Our fruits are indeed lacking. To be more specific, here are some of the details they discovered – they may shock you.
● 70% to 80% of US population are Christians
● Only 20% attend church at least 19 times per year
● 37% of the 20% who attend don’t feel prayer is important
● 40% of the 20% who attend rarely or never open the Bible
● 10% of the 20% who attend pay a tithe
These stats are really disappointing to learn. I had assumed we were doing much better than this in terms of living our religion. Even on a secular basis, we are constantly being encouraged to step up and act in accordance to our beliefs. To prove this point, here are a few phrases we’re all familiar with:
● Practice what you preach
● Walk your talk
● Lead by example
● Don’t just talk about it, be about it
● Actions speak louder than words
● Put your money where your mouth is
These are all phrases we’ve heard many times throughout our lives and they usually don’t make us feel very good. The reason is – we all fall short. We’re not perfect so we make mistakes and fail to act the way we should, say what we should or accomplish what we should.
Then there’s the conflict between doing what we should versus what we want. I should eat a more healthy diet but I want the sausage and ribs. This reminds me of a saying that has stuck with me for decades: “The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what we want most for what we want at the moment.”
We all make thousands of decisions every day, whether consciously or subconsciously. There’s the smoker who really wants to quit and has great intentions but ends up trading that want for smoking just one more cigarette right now. The result is failure to quit and the feeling of disgust with oneself and unhappiness with the lack of willpower.
There’s the individual who’s in far too much debt and really wants to pay it off and be debt free but trades that for putting a new flat screen TV he really wants on his credit card. There’s the couch potato who really
wants to get in shape but trades going to the gym for just one more episode on Netflix. There’s the father that wants to spend more time with his kids but trades it for just a little more time on social media.
We all experience similar trades, often multiple times each day and as a result, we feel worse and worse about ourselves and our resolve to truly accomplish something of lasting value. I remember a definition of the word “character” that has stuck with me. “Character – the ability to carry out a good resolution long after the mood in which you made it has left you.”
One of the ways I can relate to this definition deals with my schooling. I’m sure I’m not alone in this but many a time, when faced with a looming mid-term or final exam, I would make a deal with myself that rather than spend the time studying on any given evening, I would get up really early the next morning and buckle down and study. I would convince myself this was a great idea and a sound resolution. Then when the alarm would go off at 5:00 AM the next morning, I would come up with every excuse in the book why I really didn’t need to get up so early to study. The mood in which I made my resolution had definitely left and as a result I far too often failed to carry out that good resolution.
I don’t think any of us would disagree that protecting and providing for our families is a very good resolution. We can all become very passionate about our roles to take care of our families and even put down on paper our specific plans and goals on how to follow through with our objectives. Having worthwhile intentions is an important starting point. Moving beyond those intentions can often times be a struggle.
I live in earthquake country and creating a sound plan for my family in the event of an earthquake was indeed very important to me. It’s funny how I justified putting my plans down on paper was somehow providing a higher level of protection for my family. It wasn’t until I actually put my plan into action, with my family, that I finally felt that sense of security and peace of mind that my family would be prepared.
As a family, we went into each room and discussed the possible damage that could occur and what we could do now to mitigate such potential damage. As a family, we went to our natural gas meter and practiced putting the attached wrench on the valve and turned it just a little so everyone could feel what was necessary to turn off the gas. We went to the outside breaker box and explained how to turn off the power to the house. We went to the water valve and took turns turning off the water to the house. We talked to the kids about what to do if we, their parents weren’t home when an earthquake struck. They were to wait for us inside the camper shell on the back of my pickup so we all got inside to practice.
Over the years, we have continued to review these and many other related issues to be prepared in the event of an earthquake with our now married kids and grand-kids. The point of all of this is that until I actually trained everyone regarding our plan, all the great ideas and intentions I had were of no real value.
Taking the time to create an emergency preparedness plan for your family is a critical first step. But just creating the plan will not protect or feed your family in times of need. Don’t trade what you want most for your family for what you want at the moment. We must “practice what we preach” and “walk our talk” so the fruits of our beliefs will indeed benefit those we love.

Almost everyone I met with had some level of storage but in every case, the estimate I was given as we sat around the kitchen table was way off base. On average, I would guess that typically a family would state their food storage would last them three to four times longer than I knew it would.
tomatoes, lettuce and a nice layer of Miracle Whip on toasted old fashion white bread (my mouth is watering as I type this) simply do the trick. The pleasures to the palette have always overridden that pesky logic part of my brain and I can’t say I regret it.
food taken was indeed eaten and nothing thrown away. Dad began to sweat knowing he was in big trouble – there was no way on earth he was going to be able to choke down those liver steaks, regardless of the impending wrath of the mess Sargent.
st of us would have thought – just hold your nose and shovel the liver down. Easy to say when you’re not the one on the receiving end. Just last night, I tried to get my granddaughter to try some clam dip and you would have thought I was trying to get her to eat a spoonful of slimy worms. She’d have none of it!
% of the buildings, apartments and houses were totally leveled, many of which were still burning, giving off a terrible black, acrid smoke. Slowly, others began to emerge from their make-shift bomb shelters, faced with what would change their lives forever. There were a fortunate few whose dwellings were just slightly damaged while there were some that were miraculously completely untouched.
Each family member took a turn smelling the bacon and were overwhelmed with excitement and later stated they never remembered anything smelling as wonderful as that raw bacon did that evening.
now, it didn’t take me long to draw an analogy with this developing situation and emergency preparedness. We’ve all heard the old adage, “An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.” There is great wisdom in those words; unfortunately that wisdom is mostly ignored by far too many of us.
rvations desk. The news they were hearing was not encouraging as they heard reports of the flooding and damage near the coast and they were holding on to the hope that the Red Cross would somehow find them and help them with food and supplies.”
I took my wife to the movie “Darkest Hour” about Winston Churchill the other evening – really liked the movie. I honestly had no idea how much opposition Churchill had during WWII from his own party as well as the balance of Parliament. Churchill was adamantly opposed to giving in to Hitler and negotiating some type of treaty. I loved seeing the movie “Dunkirk” as well that showed these extraordinary times from another very unique perspective. I would highly recommend you watch both movies.
There were meal plans that were predominately whole grains, providing around 800 calories per day and yet were titled a “year’s supply”. And then there were others who offered meal plans with extremely small serving sizes, yet they were allowed to call it a “year’s supply” as well. One company’s representative shared with me his concern how there was no real quantifiable measuring formula in that day to make it easy to determine what a year’s supply really should be and how any given company should be compared to that standard. He said it got so extreme that one could almost take an apple and cut it up into 365 small pieces and call it a year’s supply of apples.
In other words, most people who purchase food storage simply store it away and really don’t want to think about it again, feeling as if they have accomplished this important task and can now check it off their list. Very little thought is given to what life would be like if they really had to live off their food storage. If fact, that’s the last thing most people ever want – to actually use their food storage. As a result, far too little due diligence is performed in analyzing and comparing different meal plans and how their lives might be affected if they had to live off them. Thus the need to discuss the fundamentals – calories, meals, servings and serving sizes.
Meals can be an important factor if there are a wide variety of entrees. I remember being on a 100-mile backpacking trip in the Wind River mountain range of Wyoming and all I took for breakfast was a bunch of pouches of instant oatmeal. By the end of that week-long trip, I was so sick of that oatmeal that I never wanted to even see a pouch of instant oatmeal again for as long as I lived. I never knew I could become so disgusted with a single food item in such a short period of time. I promise variety is an essential part of a balanced plan.
I followed up by asking how on earth it was is possible to feed a family of eight on only $50 per month. He replied by saying they didn’t shop in the front of the store, they shopped in the back. Still confused, I asked him to clarify what he meant. He hesitated for a moment and then said, “You wouldn’t believe how much food grocery stores throw away.” It then all became clear. He and his family were dumpster diving in the back of the grocery store to secure enough food to feed their family. It became very obvious that they had very little money and were willing to do whatever it took to feed their family. Needless to say, I did not make the sale but I did learn a lot as to the measures individuals would take to keep from going without.
n at the courthouse more than an hour when they told us to evacuate, that the hurricane was headed right for us. I feel kind of stupid saying this now, but we were really kind of excited. We thought this was going to be just a fun adventure.”